Tuesday, May 13, 2014

India Day 3: Dharavi (Slums)



Today was a bit alarming for most of us.  We started the morning with two lectures (we are here for class, after all).  We then had lunch, and boarded the bus for a 30 minute drive.  Thirty minutes turned into an hour (Mumbai traffic is 2 times worse than Atlanta!), and we arrived at Dharavi (“The Slums”) for a tour.  I, as many Americans would, expected dirty chaos in a residence called a slum:  Well, it was dirty.  In fact, I consider the living conditions atrocious and entirely appalling.  What we found, though, in addition to terribly unappealing conditions, were people who work very hard, who are unashamed of what they do and where they live, and who, according to our professors here, are entrepreneurs.  I guess by the definition of the word that it’s true.  There are businesses run and money made by way of recycling the abundant garbage and aluminum here, making leather, soap, clay pots, and numerous other jobs.  I wish I could have taken pictures as attempting to describe this place simply won’t give you a realistic impression.  I’ll try to describe it, though, as best I can:

We walked over the train tracks on a bridge, where we stopped and our guide asked us questions about our thoughts and impressions of the word “slum.”  We each gave our thoughts, typical responses were voiced:  Dirty, messy, disorganized…And then we walked down the stairs into another world.  There were flies in the air about halfway down the stairs.  Immediately we saw stray animals, mud, and garbage in a heap on the street, and people going about their business in dirty, dusty clothes.  There were many people and little sanitation.  At first it looked much like the streets we’d come off of.  Quickly though, we turned onto a side street, and saw what we were there to see.  Two story shacks with steep ladders from the first floor to the second, siding made of corrugated aluminum sheets:  The first floor was a work space.  They were little factories amongst a million people, and they were only as big as about a large room in one of our houses in The US.  Above the work spaces are what I can only assume to be living spaces.  We didn’t see inside, but the footprint is only as big as the shop below; and families with children living there in these cramped quarters.  There was garbage everywhere:  In piles and in pieces, around small dumpsters or trash cans, and in the middle of nowhere.  Children played in it or looked for items among the trash; for what I can’t imagine.
I was careful not to let my long, conservative skirt touch the ground most of the day as the ground was covered in dust, dirt, and liquids of unknown origin.  There were holes in walks, piles two stories high of items from plastic to trash.  People made their way through the already narrow sidewalks, made narrower still by the piles of debris.  Among all of this were goats, usually tied to something, which would be used for food.  I just wanted to pet them all and milk some which were badly in need.  It seems that while there is a verbal respect for life here, the animals we’ve seen are extremely ill-kept.
We eventually walked through the residential area of the slum.  A man sat outside his home on the dirty, broken sidewalk washing himself.  We turned a corner to a dark and dank narrow ally-like walk with low overhead and hanging wires.  Cracked paths led us by curtain doors, all closed, which led to tiny living spaces.  Above, by way of narrow ladders, were more living quarters.  Again, trash floated about, children played, and people went about their business.  Though, interestingly enough, the locals here love foreigners.  They are fascinated by us and often stop what they’re doing to watch us walk by.  This happened often in The Slum. 

We are told that the residents, who also work in Dharavi, are there of their own free will.  That they choose this work.  One reason is that many of them have families in the rural areas and the members in the slum make more money there than they can where they come from.  For this reason, they work here and send money home to their families.  Another reason is that they often don’t have the skills to work in some other areas of the city.  Some people would have us believe that despite these reasons, that it’s still a choice.  Apparently some of the people who live here are very wealthy, and it costs very much to stay in a space.  I believe it as I have no reason to doubt it, and the people giving us the information live here…what do I know?  However, as an American with so many people living in poor conditions, and knowing that there are so many social programs available to them (admittedly nearly all of them are sorely flawed—but they do exist), many of us had a very hard time understanding why anyone would choose to live in those conditions.  The response when any of us asked about this is that they are entrepreneurs, that this life is a choice, and that if you have no other options, it works just fine.  A bit ironic, I agree.  We were also told to look at the people and to see if we saw anyone unhappy.  While I didn’t see anyone particularly unhappy, I also didn’t see anyone who looked thrilled or excited about their situation either.  They work hard, long days, in extraordinarily horrid conditions, for little pay.

Despite all that we saw, I do have to say that not once, even for a second, did anyone ask for even one handout.  This is quite impressive as the begging in Mumbai has been absolutely overwhelming.  Never have most, if not any, of us seen anything quite like the beggars here.  There was a woman just tonight holding an infant who simply followed me around for 5+ minutes.  I couldn’t believe it.  She just assumed because I/we are foreigners we will give her handouts.
I concluded this overwhelming day with dinner at the hotel followed by a walk around the block with two group-mates (Ria and Zaheer).  We visited a dress shop around the block from our hotel.  Let me tell you, Indian wedding attire is BEAUTIFUL!!  It was so worth going.  Z is trying to surprise his sister with a gift for her wedding.  Ria modeled the styles he liked for him to see what the might look like.  Oh my goodness are they just exquisite!  

My feet are still very bad at the end of the day.  Elevation tends to help, though.  I just have to do the best I can.

‘Til tomorrow….

Sunday, May 11, 2014

India Day 2: Elephanta Caves and Shopping

We started our day early today trying to avoid the heat and the crowds.  I'm so glad we did!  Most of us are sunburned, and the crowds were unbearable on the island as we left.

Elephanta Caves are on a small island about 45 minutes, by ferry, from Mumbai (Bombay).  We passed by The Gate of Bombay constructed when the British left India (very beautiful!) and got on to the ferry.  The breeze on the water was nice, very cooling.  I was completely shocked when I saw a man finish a juice box and simply chuck it over the side of the boat.  It took everything I had not to gawk at him.  I asked about this and I was told that there are not enough waste baskets and since people can't just carry their trash, the must just drop it where they are.  I found this unbelievable and tried to explain "Leave No Trace" to the kind girls hosting us-it wasn't well understood.  We even explained that when you go scuba diving, you don't touch the turtles because it's illegal.  The remark was that no one will know because you're under the sea.

So, on to Elephanta we went.  There was a moderately steep walk up some very uneven stairs to get to the caves.  We saw our first "Indian Monkeys" on the way.  Actually monkeys which are quite comical--until they take your food and all but laugh at you while they eat it and stare you in the eye.  Photos are coming tomorrow of the animals.

We also saw a few goats, many dogs, and a very large cow.  They were all hits as we are animal loving Americans.  Though the real excursion was to the caves.  These are caves that have within them carved statues of the Hindu Gods.  Carved by the Portuguese, and then destroyed by the same, they are beautiful relics of the history of the nation.

We shopped this afternoon.  Oh my goodness, did we shop!  I'm not much of a shopper to start with, so when you had very hot heat, modest (read:  long) clothing, and very many people in very small spaces, you get a very tired Me.  I did buy a couple of items.  Most everything here is so cheap!  Clothing for a few dollars is just crazy to me.  And many people here wear these clothes.  Though they may be more expensive to locals than the seem to us.  I think Indians would be shocked at the clothing prices in America.  Actually, I think Indians would be shocked at the price of everything in America.  I bought 2 liters of water today for $1.

My feet were doing better this morning and most of the day.  Unfortunately, a beer and then extensive shopping led to them swelling again.  Not as sore as yesterday, but not very comfortable right now.  I think the water is helping.  For the first 18 hours or so that we were here, we kept being told to drink water, drink water, but we were only being given juice-size glasses of water at a time.  So I bought many liters and have had almost 3 today.  I feel like a new person!

I'm including a couple of photos from yesterday, today's will be posted tomorrow (hopefully).

Until then...Keep on Burning...

 Train Station in Mumbai
Train Station in Mumbai
 Coast line of Mumbai--The camera settings were off so you can't see all the trash
 Hanging Gardens--A park in the city
A street corner as we passed

Saturday, May 10, 2014

India: Flight and 1st Day

After nearly 24 hours of travel time, we have arrived in India (Mumbai).  We breezed through customs and baggage claim as it was only 3 AM yet, only to be accosted by a bunch of squawking Indian men looking to help us with our bags for $1/$2/$20.  There was a delay among our group as our drivers attempted to figure out where our bags would fit, which, I'm told, is quite common here.  Nothing gets done quickly, I'm told.

My feet were extraordinarily swollen upon arrival.  An issue that was somewhat bettered by rest and elevation, but hindered today as we spent the whole day around town with our hosts.  They are a group of students from Mumbai College's HR College, and they are wonderful!  Kind, informative, eager to teach and learn:  We know that we'll enjoy spending our first week with them!

This morning, after breakfast, a couple of us went for a short walk with Professor Dembla around the block.  Our first glimpse of the city in the daylight, and WOW, is it dirty!  I can't even describe it.  Trash, rubble, stray animals, people sleeping smack in the middle of the sidewalk...not to mention the smell.  It comes and goes, stronger in some spaces than others, and a real adjustment.  The natives simply go about their business. Dr. Dembla told us just to ignore those sleeping in the streets, to just take it in as scenery.  I'll try to do so, but it's hard when you are raised believing that it's somehow your job to make things better.  It's such a vast issue here.  We're told that the government made apartments available to some of these people, and that they chose to stay on the street and rent their spaces out for income.

Divya and some of my classmates just arrived back at the hotel after an evening excursion to a market.  I'm excited to hear what the did and saw.  I came back to rest my feet.  Our hotel is in the middle of the city.  It's not in an area that I would consider "safe" at home, but it seems to be fine.  Our rooms are simple, but offer everything we require. 

The food has been wonderful so far!  flavors and experiences never before imagined.  We had a "chai" drink today.  Not like Starbucks Chai Tea (at All), it was curd with spices and tapioca. I did try it, I didn't care for it.  Otherwise, lunch was so tasty.  The service reminded me of The Druze Village as they just keep giving you more food.  But it's so good, you can't say no!

Tomorrow will undoubtedly be busy as well.  I'll try to remember to upload some pictures before posting.  Internet has proven to be difficult here as we have to pay so time is limited.  I haven't been able to talk to Erik which frustrates me because that was my one big worry aside from the flight, but I'm trying to take it in stride and enjoy the experiences as they come.  Hopefully one of my classmates can troubleshoot my wifi issue, and/or the next hotel (in Goa) will be a little more user friendly.

Until then, Keep On Burning!

Saturday, April 26, 2014

Inda Jitters

Well, I leave in 12 days to visit a continent half way around the world for three weeks.  A new culture, new smells, new faces...and, No Erik?  It hit me about mid week that I'll spend three weeks away from my family, and my Erik.  What's worse, I've had to work at school work preparing for finals, we haven't even been able to work on communication logistics.  We also haven't worked on our trip to Europe.  We have no plan, no tickets, no definitive accommodations:  Basically, we have nothing.  But hey, you only live once, right?  Carpe Diem?

Despite all of these concerns, I'm excited!  Our final group member waiting for a visa has received it, and our passports (with newly acquired visas) are safely back at the university awaiting our pickup.  I've tried to maintain a relatively lackadaisical attitude toward the trip for two reasons.  First, for the reasons listed above; and second, because I feel like a person can't get a true feeling for the host country when he/she wants to go there, but wants the experience to go a certain way.  I can't tell you what I'll see or feel or do.  Sure, we have an itinerary, but the places you go when abroad are only a quarter of your experience.  It's about opening yourself up to listening and even copying the local behavior.  It's about trying new things and stepping out of your comfort zone.  So my expectations are simply to experience each minute as it occurs.    And to live in that moment to my greatest ability. 

I do plan to write while I'm there, and hope to post pictures as well.  Since phone calls are obviously not an option, this will be a means of communication.  I'm excited to share this endeavor, and am hopeful that at least one person reading will be changed for the better.  If one person can learn something from my experiences, it's all worth it!

Monday, March 31, 2014

Backpacking: Our First Steps On The Trails

Well, we're officially "backpackers" now.  Three days and three nights spent on The Benton Mackaye Trail in Georgia.  We had great company, perfect weather (for a day and a half), we learned so much...it was a fantastic weekend!  I meant to journal each day and use those journals to post about the weekend.  Between the wet and cold on Friday and Saturday nights, and the gorgeous sunshine and perfect campfire Sunday night, no journaling occurred.  Therefore, I'm going to tell you about the weekend to best of my memory.  Pictures will come later (sorry, I know that's the fun part).

Friday, March 28, 2014
We left the house a bit late and got on the road at about 8:10.  The weather reports looked completely accurate with rain and clouds all the way up to North Georgia.  The good news, though, was that it was a constant drizzling rain and not a washout.  Still, we (I) were a bit nervous with it being our first trip out.  My mindset was, "we have to learn how to hike in the rain sometime, right?"  After getting very lost, driving 30+ minutes out of the way, getting good directions, finding the right forest service road, hearing metal on metal sounds coming from my car that made us think it was entirely broken while driving (literally) up the forest service road, we finally came squealing/squeaking/thumping/grinding into the parking lot where we were to meet Sharon and Jonny, we very unceremoniously threw on our rain gear and packs, and started walking...

After a few minutes, something caught my eye.  I had to ask Erik if I was really seeing what I though I was seeing.  A small, unassuming, white, rectangular mark on a tree.  The AT!  We took our first steps on The Appalachian Trail!  I knew that The BMT crosses The AT, but it hadn't really occurred to me that we would take steps on THE AT.  It was very surreal!

A very quick few miles later, Sharon suggested that we camp at a spot down from the trail and next to a stream.  It was flat, and quiet, and perfect!  We agreed, half climbed/half slid down the hill, and began setting up camp.  The rain had slowed to almost nothing for us to put up tents and get everything set up for dinner.  We ate and chatted for a bit, and all went to bed.

We woke up to drips.  Everywhere.  The tent leaks!  Gahh!!  This made for a restless night.  An already cramped space (two-man backpacking tents should really be marketed as one-man tents, especially in wet weather).  On the flip side, our Mountain Hardware Ultra Lamina 32 sleeping bags performed superbly!  Stayed dry and warm inside, beaded water straight off outside!  Love Them!

Saturday, March 29, 2014
After a late wake-up to more wet weather, we made some breakfast and agreed that we'd stay at the same spot again so that we wouldn't pack up wet tents.  We cleaned up and started off to wander around and see what was to see.  We saw a nice waterfall and wandered a bit more, returned to camp, made some dinner, and got a fire started in the very wet weather!  A relaxing day, all in all.

The night was another wet one, and Cold!  Goodness did it get cold!  Our bags are rated to 32 degrees, and apparently it was at least that cold.  A night of shivering ensued, and more restlessness.

Sunday, March 30, 2014
Ahhh...We woke to the correct forecast of dry weather.  It was a beautiful sight!  Again, a late start, but after breakfast we all packed up, slung on our packs, and started walking.  What a difference some sunshine makes.  We felt energized and excited.  We saw blue skies and white puffy clouds.  Bare trees whistled like I've never heard in the wind.  There was a strong, cold breeze on the ridge that made for perfect hiking.  What a beautiful Spring day!

We came to a crossing and were getting the map out to decide which way to go, when along comes The AT Ridgerunner (Approach and Springer trails).  Well, you know I was just beside myself!  "Nachita," (Betsy), AT c/o 2011, was friendly and eager to guide us in the right direction.  She had weather info, water locations, and camp site knowledge.

A short trot down the the trail we came across a perfectly lovely campsite next to a creek.  A great end to a beautiful day with nice weather.  We collected some firewood, started a fire and made some dinner.  It was a very cool night and was quickly turning cold.  We played with some glow-sticks around the fire, had a few laughs, and called it a night.

Monday, March 31, 2014
Our last day for now.  The time has gone too fast.  We all woke and made breakfast.  Packing up was a done quickly.  We were all eager to get hiking.  We planned to finish the BMT loop to Springer Mountain, take a quick side trip to the Springer Shelter (where we read through some of the log book entries), and finish with a "quick" .9 miles to the parking lot and our cars...and the end of our first days as backpackers.

It was a great weekend.  We learned SO much, and here are some of those lessons:
  1. Fun can be had anywhere, in any condition.  Even outside in the rain.
  2. Always have a lighter handy!  The waterproof matches might be storm-proof, but the striker is useless!
  3. Cook in the bag--it makes clean-up a cinch!  
    • Step one, boil water.  
    • Step two, pour water in ziploc and let cook.  
    • Step three, eat.  
    • Step four, turn ziploc into a trash bag.  
    • Step five, Enjoy the rest of your evening!
  4. It doesn't really matter how fast you walk, as long as you keep walking.  You'll get there.
  5. Baby wipes are a necessity.  Really.
So, we're backpackers.  We are proud of ourselves, and so bummed that it's over.  Until the next adventure, anyhow....

Thursday, March 27, 2014

First Trip on the Trail (Benton Mackaye)

Well, we leave for our first backpacking trip in the morning.  It's very surreal, and our planning process has been quite discombobulated, but here is our lesson thus far:

1.  We have NO idea what we're doing!!

Normally someone in our position would include weights of, well, everything.  We failed at that.

Many people would breakdown what they are wearing and what they're carrying.  We failed at that, too.

We are, however, excelling at being excited, and nervous, and excited!

It looks like rain tomorrow and Saturday, so It'll surely be a shock and a learn on the fly immersion into backpacking 101, but we're going for it!  Updates and photos to follow!




Wednesday, March 19, 2014

Messy, Uncontrollable...Life

When most of us sit and think about what we want to do with our lives, often we find ourselves saying, "well, I'd like to do X," or "I wish I could do Y."  Truth be told, even still in my early thirties I find myself unsure of my chosen path.  I suspect that this will continue for some time.

I'm working hard in school finally making my way toward my first bachelor's degree in Management with a professional interest in Entrepreneurship.  I have a good job that I enjoy and which allows me to pay the bills.  I have a husband whom I adore, and who is truly my very best friend in the world, and I have a family who loves and supports me.  One might think that a person with all of these positives in his/her life must know where he/she is headed, right?  Wrong.  I find myself wondering if I chose the right program?  "Where will it take me?" I ask myself.  "Will I like where I land?" 

When it comes down to it, though, I guess it doesn't really matter.  Erik and I know we want to own a business, we know we want to hike the AT after I graduate, we know we want to travel the world and meet people and cultures along the way, and ultimately, we think we want to have a family after all of that is complete.

I used to think there was a specific order in which my days should progress.  Easily, I should take the path that is "expected."  I should graduate from college, get a job, get married, have a family.  But my path got a bit scrambled along the way.  I went to college, met the man of my dreams, didn't graduate, held 2 to 4 jobs at a time to pay the bills, grew very big dreams, and am now back in college.

Certainly, when I was asked years ago where I saw myself in 15 years, it wasn't here.  I was going to be successful in all modern terms of the word.  I would have a big house that was perfectly clean, and a handsome husband.  We'd obviously have two beautiful, perfectly behaved children, and a pretty green lawn with some flowers that would be kept on the weekends.  I would live in storybook-land.  

From time to time, as most of us do, I find myself wishing that all had worked out just so.  And then I snap out of it and remember that all of those ideals come from...wait for it...a story book!  I remember that life is a living thing.  It's messy, and difficult, and sometimes a little gray.  We learn and grow and change every single day.  I have to remind myself that it's OK that my (admittedly very handsome) husband drives me bat shit crazy on a good day, that my little cottage of a house will likely always be a disaster.  My yard is effectively a mud pit, and I will likely start a family at nearly 40 instead of nearly 30.  I remind myself (when I remember) that I don't have to control everything:  It's a successful day, after all, when I remember to eat breakfast and grab all of my school books on my way out the door.  And I've had to convince myself to nearly completely give up on the notion of being a stereotypical "good" wife.

That journey continues day by day.  Rainbows appear now and again, along with a beautiful, blue sky which reminds me that good things are coming.  Very good things.  We began accomplishing some of our goals with our wedding a few years ago, a trip to Israel & Egypt a few months after that, a recent visit to the Dominican Republic was an interesting and different experience.  We will continue to cross items off of our list this spring and summer.  We will take our first multi-day hiking trip in a few short weeks, I will study in India for 3 weeks, and we will visit London and Paris for a handful of days each as well. 

I'm still unsure of my path.  I never know if a choice is the right one or the convenient one.  But this, these choices, seem right.  We are stepping off the beaten path, "[taking] the road less traveled by..."  We are excited, and nervous, and thrilled...and blessed.  Blessed beyond measure.  I don't know what we seek, but I know that it lives.  We will continue to ask and to wonder, and one day, G-d willing, we will be at peace knowing that we saw all that we were meant to see, that we tasted life as it was meant to be tasted, and that we lived this living thing called life.